As time slips away and graduation approaches, naturally, the entire Baruch student body wonders—who are our next valedictorian and salutarians? This year, those honors are bestowed upon: Valedictorian, Ryan Xiao, and Salutatorian, Hiba Lahfid.
While both students reached the top of their class, they both have had incredibly personal journeys that reveal the determination and resilience behind the accolade. In a conversation with both Xiao and Lahfid, we discussed the reality behind their accomplishments:
What proved to be the most challenging aspect of your high school career?
I think the most challenging aspect of my high school career was for sure staying motivated. At times, motivation was just not super high and especially seeing other people not trying as hard or being more relaxed about school work, it really demoralizes me and makes me feel like I shouldn’t be working as hard. [Xiao]
Coming from parents who did not finish their schooling in America, I grew up without much academic guidance — not because my parents didn’t care, but because they simply didn’t have familiarity with the American educational system. The most challenging aspect was that every project, every homework assignment, and every deadline was completely on my own. Nonetheless, I was never short on emotional support from my parents. [Lahfid]
How did it feel to be awarded valedictorian?
I was very shocked because I had heard from the grapevine that it would be someone else. So I just completely gave up and didn’t really expect it, so definitely surprised, but also just happy because I feel like I put a lot into school and to see it finally pay off was very nice. [Xiao]
Which teacher or staff member had the biggest impact on you and why?
Ms. Benowitz and Ms. Grove—honestly, they are both my school mothers. Both were there for me whenever I needed. Ms. Benowitz was always willing to listen, read through my college supplements and serve as a true mentor. Ms. Grove was the person I could go to for anything, a shoulder to lean on throughout the college process and across the last couple of years. She supported me in every way possible. [Lahfid]
What advice would you give your freshman yourself?
I would say to, in spite of all things, work harder. I mean everything will work out in the end, and all the hard work will pay off, so it will all be fine even if it doesn’t feel like it. As much as I’ve already accomplished, a part of me feels as if I could’ve accomplished more. [Xiao]
Don’t overwork yourself. I stressed over school and grades far too much, and I’ll admit that I feel somewhat burnt out now. At the same time, I would still encourage that younger version of myself to keep putting in the hard work and commitment because it does pay off eventually. So, I’d also say: Keep going. [Lahfid]
How do you want to be remembered by your peers?
I think I want to be remembered as someone who was hardworking and who put in that effort. And someone who just never gave up, even in the face of obstacles. Positively. [Xiao]
In a positive manner. I had fun with the people I’m close with in high school! [Lahfid]
As they prepare to lead our class one last time at graduation, their stories serve as a reminder that while the titles are prestigious, the characters they have built along the way is the true reward. It has been an incredible privilege to watch and work alongside both Xiao and Lahfid over the years. We are all proud and cannot wait to see what the future looks like for the two—no doubt it will be bright.
